In life everyone gets labeled: People try to tell us who are we meant to be or what to do, even where to go - Sometimes we are told that if we fall from one spot, "we will never get up!"; people tell us, that if we fall and fall hard, "we cannot stand up again..." It's the same thing with the failure and success, and actually with everything we come across with in our life... - With Job and Career, Work and Life, Relationships and Love, etc. People just shape their opinions on ourselves, because of their own experiences: And most of the times, we just cannot fight back telling that they're wrong!
But do you know that most of us who are labeled, even those who aren't, know that they can stand up again: They know that they can do it; that they can succeed - but despite that knowledge, mostly they stay down. Sometimes though some of them stand up, even if they know that the next fall will be even harder or worse. But The ironic thing about it is that there's only one thing that separates those who stand up and those who do not, and yet this thing cannot be explained by one word or a sentence: It just makes it more and more confusing than it really is - that's why i wont explain it and instead i will tell you this: "It is a mistake to suppose that people succeed through success; they often succeed through failures." And this is the Wisdom in Failure, because failure always breeds success,- if you'll take the advantage to learn from your mistakes...
You just have to put aside the Fear and stand up to it; do not fear to fail again, because failure is the part of success..