You know, when it comes to break up's, in most cases it's almost the same story: We feel bad and upset; some of us go suicidal, some not; some start to blame themselves, and most of us cry their hearts out... I mean, it's normal, and it's the way it just is. Sure you can try to think of what went wrong, but it doesn't change the fact that it happened! These very same things prove that we are humans; that we have a soul and we're not some emotionless bastards without a heart to care or to love - there's nothing abnormal about it!
But still, how to handle an Break Up: How to deal with these negative emotions after we have broken up with someone we loved? How to move on? And most importantly, How to heal our broken hearts and get back on our two feet?
Break Up Inspiration: How to Get Through an Break Up?
"And I don't regret the rain, or the nights I felt the pain, or the tears I had to cry some of those times along the way. Every road I had to take, every time my heart would break; it was just something that I had to get through, to get me to you."
...Hope Floats
- Firstly and most importantly remember, that "after every sad ending follows the happy beginning!" I know that most of you probably wont listen to this advice, or even understand of what it has to do with getting through an breakup, but understand this: "You can't get through of something while your head is held down!" - so stand up straight, smile, and move on with your head held high...
- Secondly, try not to think of what went wrong in your relationship! In-fact, don't think about it at all... 'Why' you ask? Because it doesn't change anything; it doesn't change the fact that it has already happened. (Take notice, that i also mentioned it above this post.)
I mean to say, that there's really no point lurking in the past and try to undo it. In this case you'd probably get stuck - and the longer you stay, the longer and harder it'll be to move on... - Invite some comedy into your life: Go out with your friends, laugh, drink or do whatever that makes you feel better! I mean, life goes on - with or without the person with whom you have broken up with... So enjoy it, and do not feel bad about what has happened.
- Once you have broken up with someone you loved, don't hold back your tears... I mean, it's normal to cry your heart out... Just let it out, there's no shame in it!
When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
Helen Keller