How Passion for Someone can Kill your Dreams?

In every persons life who walks down this Earth, comes the time when we're passionate about someone more than something we want to achieve in our Lives. It's when we're deeply in Love: It's when we desire in return nothing else than to be loved as much as we love them. But what it really is, is the time of Chaos: When our feelings are put into the blender and mixed with sugar, salt and pepper!
It doesn't happen with all the people rather than most of them; when our goals in Life are misguided with spicy, yet sweet volcano-like feelings,- ready to burst out from our hearts...

» Description of "Love Is", from the movie Captain Corelli's Mandolin:

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
» St. Augustine

an Short Story of Passion and Goals in Life:

You know, no-matter how Big or Small Dreams i had when i was a little bit younger, I was always told by my ex-girlfriends that i cannot achieve wherever i already had set my goals: They told me, that "it's Impossible!"; "Forget about that dream!"; "Do this, Do that!", etc.
Ironic thing is that i always believed in their opinions: And despite my own passion for that particular goal where to i was aiming for, the passion for someone i loved always pushed my Life Goals further away. Because of that, i lost 6 years of my life into doing something i didn't like: Into something, that sometimes i even hated! But despite all that misery and unhappiness in my past, eventually i fought back and reached my destination!

So... How Passion for Someone can Kill your Dreams?

If you read the story above, you surely understood what was this message i wanted you to receive: And if you didn't understand it, then most likely you didn't read the quote before the story itself, which actually brings us to the point of "How Passion for Someone can Kill your Dreams!"

The truth is, that this Passion for Someone you Love doesn't mean literally killing your Dreams rather than pushing you to the path to misguidance: Meaning that the stronger passion takes the lead of an another without you even noticing it. (Believe me, if you'd have to Live it through you'd understand what i want to say!)

Anyways my late point of this post is really an simple one, and here it is: "No-Matter in whom you Fall in Love, or to whom you have Strong Feelings - Do not never-ever let this person sit (Not Literally speaking) on your head and tell you what you should actually do, or to be! Because if this person really Loves you, or feels the same way for you as you to him/her, then he/she will wait for you to get to where you want to be!" - And that's the truth Dear Reader, Always remember it...