Sure we realize when we hate someone, or when we're happy to be together with that particular person - yet realizing happiness or hate, how can you tell that this is what it is what you're currently feeling: How can you tell, that you hate that person; How can you tell, that you're happy to be together with that person when you don't fully understand the inner "in Love" feeling inside of you?
To be honest: Happiness, Hate and in Love - those three feelings are much alike: You may not understand or see it; You may defer or reason with it, but still, somehow they relate to each-other, somehow, whether happiness or hate - they yet again equal to the feeling "in Love". Yet, when it comes to "Loving Someone", then it's totally different story... and you just can't find any significance to them!
How do you Know, if you're really in Love?
It's a very common question, "How can i tell I'm in Love?", it's also an question not easy to answer! Sometimes it's the question with many answers, sometimes with one - and sometimes with none...Most of the times when it comes to this "in Love" feeling, most of the people misjudge or lie to themselves telling that "I'm in Love" and such. This behavior is mostly seen in teens, when this "in Love" feeling most likely is just an attraction to one another; sometimes it's lust or even something else.
In many cases people do not understand it, because most of the times you have to live it through before you'll know what it really is: Sometimes though, it's too late to understand it; to understand if you were in Love with that particular person to whom you first referred "I'm in Love!"
Like i said above, the "in Love" feelings somehow relate to Hate, Happiness, etc. - You just can't really tell, because even attraction and lust to one another are misjudged with this "in Love" feeling: These all are like sugar, salt and pepper mixed in the blender with happiness and hate, attraction, lust and passion - Eventually the taste of it is so different and confusing, which makes you just wonder! It's an Piece of Art, and it's really crazy and hard to find any significance answers to it!