Question, "Should i Breakup or Not?", is very common question which many of us ask ourselves, no matter if we're just in an relationship or even in love.
In my personal experiences trying to get an answer to this question can lead you into obsession, but most of the times, it leads into the breakup itself. WHY? - Well it's obvious, isn't it? It's because instead of trying to save our relationship, we're looking for excuses not to resolve our problems with our partner in the relationship we have!
Another thing i can tell is that most of the times when we have problems in our relationship, we think that this is it, this is the end - and that's why most of the times relationships break and love fades. It's because we fail to see what we really had or could have, instead of it we just close our eyes and accept imaginable fact that this particular problem is our relationship. Yet it isn't: What it really is, is easier path to choose; It's easier to escape and not resolve our problems... But sometimes, choosing to escape, is the right thing to do... Eventually, we just don't know Should we breakup, or not...
Why you Should Breakup, Why Not?
To be honest i cannot really tell Should you Breakup or Not, though i can tell you this: "There are always many reasons Why you Should Breakup and why you shouldn't" - It all really comes to the point what you want from your partner and what your partner wants from you; what you can give to your partner and what your partner can give to you... Yet it isn't always about giving and receiving, it's also about desire and passion, love and romance, etc.
Advice on "Why you Should Breakup?"
- You catch your partner in the act of having an unforgivable affair!
- Your partner uses Physical violence against you!
- You can't agree with your partner: Meaning that you argue non-stop about everything...
- You don't love your partner...
- You don't want to be together with your partner so often as before...
- You realize that your partner doesn't love you.
- You don't have any common interests and goals...
- Your partner cuts you down and makes you feel bad about yourself...
- You cannot be without your partner...
- You think a lot about your partner!
- No matter what, you still love your partner...
- You're happy together...
- When your partner cheats and has unforgivable affair with someone, it doesn't mean that you actually should breakup: Meaning literally that it doesn't have to be an end to your relationship if you both can find a way out of it; If you both fight to overcome it... It sure is hard, but it also makes relationship stronger - if that affair was just an mistake and there still is love and happiness in your relationship!
- No common Interests and Goals: Many people say that when you don't have any common interest and goals with your partner, then it means that you should breakup! Yet when you could look at it in another perspective view, you'd notice that it has really big and positive side: Meaning that, when you don't have same interests and goals as your partner has, your lifestyle together could be really an interesting one. In other words: "Not having any or only a few common interests and goals as your partner does, doesn't mean that you should breakup!"